Hey Ping, Thanks 4 checkn up on me No word out of the H since Monday. I went down to see a friend of ours she and her H had a baby, the baby is 10 wks today. Her and her H were best friends with us. Long story...I will cut to my point. My H talked to her H, and said, he didn't know what was going on with me, felt like I was ignoring him, maybe it would have been easier to D from the beginning. I took this to be positive in many ways, even though at first it does not look that way...here's my thinking. 1. He's opening up to someone who may/may not leak it to get back to me, 2. he feels ignored...the start of something here, possibility hints, of him starting to miss me??? 3. he took responsibility for the decision and said 'we', WOW, big step, 4. he was actually being very vulnerable here, first time he has done this since this has happened...it's a babay step, a small one, that I will take....now it's how to proceed from here????
Anywho, It was great to spend the day with my friends and the baby. The baby is soooo freggin cute. I also told my friends H, some things, things that I regret, and how I still want to work on things...I was totally positive and upbeat. They are 100% for us working on things. It's nice to have good friends like them! I didn't want my friends H to feel like he had to run and tell my H any of what I said, but if the subject gets brought up again, my friends H can say well I know how your W feels, because she told me. all in all it was a great day!
hugs to you ping! thanks for checkn up on me christa
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"
No word out of the H since Monday. I went down to see a friend of ours she and her H had a baby, the baby is 10 wks today. Her and her H were best friends with us. Long story...I will cut to my point. My H talked to her H, and said, he didn't know what was going on with me, felt like I was ignoring him, maybe it would have been easier to D from the beginning. I took this to be positive in many ways, even though at first it does not look that way...here's my thinking. 1. He's opening up to someone who may/may not leak it to get back to me, 2. he feels ignored...the start of something here, possibility hints, of him starting to miss me??? 3. he took responsibility for the decision and said 'we', WOW, big step, 4. he was actually being very vulnerable here, first time he has done this since this has happened...it's a babay step, a small one, that I will take....now it's how to proceed from here????
