Well, when you come from New York and you live in Louisiana for 25 years, you have to learn to suck on butter sometimes for fear of driving people away.
Sara!
Duexlie, I find myself making those comments, too. So does my H. I think we do it as subconscious stress/anger relievers? I made a comment the other night that I didn't really mean as anything and my H said, 'you like to get those jabs in, don't you?' I was shocked. I truly didn't mean anything by what I said, but that's how he took it. I apologized.
Sometimes we use humor to defuse certain situations. I think it's a natural thing to do. I try to think twice, or three times before opening my mouth and regretting whatever comes out of it!
