It seems wierdly like this is all more about doing all this to punish you for something than Divorcing you.
...and I totally agree. It is too weird. It is like she doesn't know what she really wants.
At one point, way back in November, she said she wanted to D me and then have us live side-by-side in condos and I'd come over all the time and see D5. I told her she is nuts if she thinks I'd be ok w/ that arrangement and seeing her constantly w/ other men. She said "I didn't think of that" so I'm not sure what she wants.
You and Kalni are both right to know that she's going to hit a wall soon over not being able to control D all the time. It may end up being worse if we do in fact get 50/50 time and have joint custody - which I'm PRAYING for. I know I've had issues w/ OCD and a fear of losing control and I'm dealing with them. However, my W has some big time control issues that are starting to rise to the surface.
