Wow, thats real progress. I like that idea, get her to talk to a C and then they will confer and try and get yu both together, sounds great. So how would you broach that with her? You havent even broached the "are you happy?" thing yet.. but if you did, and she wasnt, you could say you would like her to consider seeing the C? It all sounds like things are moving, circles within cirles...
I agree with the others, I was a little surprised your C said The bad news is that she said that people like that rarely change... I talked to my C about the possibility of BF changing (as friends said he may never change) and she said, well, people perhaps dont change their basic selves, but we all have potential for change and to change our behaviours, especially if those behaviours are destructive or unhealthy or not making us happy. So, take heart ! I guess you have to WANT to change though.
Its great to see that you are feeling better about yourself too.. you should do, you are a lovely man!
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
