You stop thinking about it is how. Destiny is really a romantic notion and one that is thought of if it is meant ot be sort of thing. It is not something that you seek. Your "destiny" is with your husband. Put everything in to that relationship and start to associate something you dislike with this OM. He is unattainable so why "try" to wreck your life and all of those around you? kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
