Please don't compare your husband to the OM. Your H maybe just needs to be told gently and directly waht you need. This has been a huge change for both of you, everything isn't going to fit perfectly even though you both have the best intentions. Give it time and bask in the joy that you are loved.
kat


Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory