I am scared to ask. I am just scared in general, I guess.
I know this feeling all too well, but in no way are you 'just scared in general'... you model incredibly strong behavior to us all the time!!
I think SallyM makes good points...if you aren't sure what you are ready to do, you can give ownership of the process back to H. 'Cause you can always change your mind and move forward at any time.
I've wondered about mediation...when the time comes, I really don't want to engage a real bulldog-type attorney (don't want the expense or the adversarial sitch...), but H is so used to being able to roll over me that i'm not sure how i would do with just a mediator. How does that work in MO?
