(((((GF))))) I am so sorry GF. I am going to agree with Jeff. Maybe you should stop doing these things for him. He doesn't appreciate you and he is very controlling.
I understand why you are doing things for him, but he is taking, taking, taking and not giving anything back (besides money, which in his mind probably makes everything ok). You cant live like that forever. If what you are doing isn't working then do something different right? Well, obviously these AOS you are doing for him isn't working....so quit and see what happens.
