happy you feel good about the apt. I wouldn't take the whole "rarely change" convo to heart though. My C said the exact same words when I first started going 5 months ago (she doesn't want to see me anymore!!!). AFTER she met H (manipulative Kalni) for a couple of times she said "I was wrong, he wants to change, he knows he has issues, he has NFC how to do it, he thinks it's impossible, yes you are right, this marriage is worth saving".
So, don't jump into conclusions just yet. And she maybe negative at first just like my H was. He still doesn't want to go BUT last time on Sat, he ASKED her to discuss with him and all they talked about was how would the future be, how he needs to change things... (writing about it made me smile).
