Puppies question about whether I can love this woman that she is now, has got me doing my own "stinkin thinkin".
Hunh??? I don't remember what I posted, but I would never advise someone to base their long-term marital decision on how they FEEL toward their spouse while that spouse is in their wayward state. What I DO advocate -- and may have said to you -- is doing an honest self-assessment of "Am I really in love with who she is [b](and I mean PRE-AFFAIR!)[/b], or am I in love with my IMAGE of who I WANT HER TO BE???"
