h4h, is good to have some attention, enjoy it. Really.
I talked a lot with a friend of mine who had a very weird sitch. Him ad W had 3 kids, 7, 3 and 9 months old! Married 10 yrs, W in her forties, a doctor, got involved with a patient, a twenty something years old boy. She kicked H out (house was hers), and got the youngster in.
He has been desperate for a while, tried everything to reconnect with no use - then he gave up and got involved with a woman he was dating back in high school. When W learned about his new R she got mad, she pleaded him to go back with her and she even threatened the new woman, she followed them, she got obsessed. He didn't go back and he is happy about it - but boy aren't some people weird?