I think it will take something serious to trigger her to change. Like the real threat of D, or something like that. Which is of course playing with fire, since once you go there, you are out of bullets, I think. So, we shall see. At least I think I am feeling better about me. I have caught myself humming and singing to myself more lately, I think that is a good sign!
I recall a conversation similar to that, threat of a D to cause change but are you ready if it doesn't have the effect you desire? I like whistling, keeps my lips in good shape in case I ever get a kiss again!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.