omg, he's here, I look great, cleaned the house (he's a complete psycho neat-freak), was nice and NOW he's upstairs BLEACHING the bathroom!!!!!!! I did a "mini" slip and had "tone" and said "you don't have to do that" and he said, "yeah, well you won't". I just kept my mouth shut. that was it. god I hate when he's here. I need a f'ing valium.