Allison is so right. Most of us here never thought this would happen to us. You know what MLC has taught ME?? It has taught me how to love myself again and that I am not just a mother, friend, wife etc. It has taught me not to take things for granted anymore! I has taught me more patience and understanding of everything in my life.
I really think that MLC is a growing experience for our H's and for us. It makes us look inside ourselves again. I actually feel alive again and look at things with different eyes.
You will get there. You will find peace. Your H will make his way through MLC. He will be angry, withdrawn, not loving anyone but himself. His eyes will open one day and he will realise what he has gotten himself into. Hopefully when he does come out of this that he will be a better person and realise what he has left behind. Let God guide him home!!!!
