Love it and love the attitude. I think I said something like that in one of my posts! I earn a good living, good looking, love the outdoors, active, a great dad, etc. AND I am very handy. Even though I have an office job, I come from a family of contractors! Too funny. But I DON'T have my own muddler!
M=46 W=47 M=24 (together 26) D21, S19 Bomb 3/16/08 OM 3/28/08 WAW moved out 5/16 Divorce final 10/09
Okay if we are talking different drinks, can I get a mudslide?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
(((((Lola))))) This is a virtual bar, we can make anything!
(((((Kalni))))) I was up early, go to the C at 0700!
(((((Michelle))))) Good Morning to you!
So, speaking of the C, I got a lot more validation. Even when I try to say that she is only hearing one side of the story, she says that she is trained to work with that, and keeps suggesting that I am not the one with the problems! It really seems that almost everything comes back to control. It really makes everything pretty much fall into place. The bad news is that she said that people like that rarely change. So that is a little disappointing.
On the other hand she was receptive to the idea of trying to get W to go in to talk to her (or more preferably another C in the same office) about me, with the hopes that it might be possible to get her to look at herself. So, I will be approaching this sometime in the near future, at the "opportune moment", I hope. We kind of agreed that her reaction and response to this could be pretty telling. I have become fairly convinced that if she does not address her issues, there isn't much hope. And I fear (and it seems to be supported by the C) that addressing the issues will be difficult, since that in itself would be giving up control. I will of course, keep you all posted!
(((Jeff))) good morning and it sounds like the C appt. gave you some food for thought and something to work towards (talking to W about going to a C). I have thought about asking my H if he would go back, but he has to want it and at this point, he just doesn't. He pays me lip service (I wish ) but he talks to either just hear himself talk or to lie enough to do damage control. How do I know you are lying? Your mouth is moving.
Sorry to highjack, I'm on a bit of a rant again today. Maybe I should switch from diet pepsi to Margaritas or whatever your serving today.
Have a great day. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
(((((S&S))))) Yeah it was a good appointment. It left me feeling better about me, but probably less optimistic about the marriage. But, it is what it is. I think the C is right, W is unlikely to change. And the situation right now is intolerable. In fact the C interpreted W's statement that she never liked sex as much more of a stab at me than I did! Maybe I have been too willing to look on the bright side, but it is my nature.
Don't worry about hijacking! We are all in this together! I think margaritas would surely help!
) but he talks to either just hear himself talk or to lie enough to do damage control. How do I know you are lying? 
Your mouth is moving.