thank you for your reply. no I have not read any books as of yet,, I have been reading posts in various forums on this site for days,, and just knowing that it isn't only me and that there are people to talk to is comforting. What makes this even more difficult is I know who the OW is, and never liked her, one of those people you just get that feeling about, can't be trusted. She had begun to reply to text messages from me that were for my H while he was asleep and without his knowledge, telling me to leave him alone, etc. this i did not take, and also countered with H, the problem is he is catering to her just to NOT argue with her,, if he ever did that with me we probably wouldn't be where we are right now.
MAZ Me 40 H 42 M 1990 Together 20 years Bomb 2/16/08 Separated 03/01/2008 2 boys 12 & 15
