I'm sorry you're here, mzul. But you will get a lot of support.
I found out right about this time last year that my 47yo wife was having an affair with her 28 year old personal trainer. In the months ahead, she too confessed to having "love" feelings for both of us.
This will be the hardest and most painful thing you will ever have to go thru, other than -- God forbid -- the loss of a child.
Who else knows about your husband's affair? Is the OW married as well? What have you all tried so far with your husband to get him to give her up and come back to the marriage?
Trust me, if he ends his marriage this way (without even trying), he WILL have serious, long-term regrets. But unfortunately, while he's with the OW, his brain chemicals are so messed up that he can't even see that.
