Sues, Be sure to document the things that OW's H told you while it's fresh on you mind. I don't know if it could have any bearing on your settlement, but I don't think it could hurt having this info with dates, etc.
I agree with everyone else your H is lost. I think it won't take long for your H and the OW to acknowledge that the grass in not greener. Like Theo would says, it will be full of sewage!
By the way how many children does the OW have? It doesn't sound like your husband has much patience. I think this could be a problem. Have you ever noticed that other people's kids get on your nerves a lot more than your own?
Have a wonderful weekend with your parents. It will be nice to be with the ones that love you unconditionally during this time.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon