Help Me Act AS IF, Part 5

[ddstartingover]

SPM - my kids are 9, 11, and 14. I won't be able to give them reassurance of stability. H seems to think all will be ok, and I can stay in the house with the kids----but I don't think I can live here anymore, for a lot of reasons. I also don't know how I can participate in the D conversation when I still feel it is so wrong! I know, LMG, we are still in the same place.

I've read a lot of opinions about how to break the news. My MC says we need to discuss what is to be said and agree on it before we have the conversation. I don't know how we will agree on anything now.