I am mortified to be married to a person who is constantly living a single life in one way or another. I am lonely and though I know a new R isn't anywhere in my near future, I think I would be less lonely if I worked through the pain of this divorce, and moved on, on my own.
Wow lwb....did you take the words from most of our heads or what?? I especially relate to you saying that you know a new R isn't in your near future but that moving on would help.
I'm sorry that you're living with all this. You need to do what you feel comfortable with.
Have a good day!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day