Bring on the Rain - Part 2

[SueS]

Hi there!

Joie & Rob- The only reason I didn't out-sappy you on the song was the time you got married. Trust me, I'm sure if I'd been married as long, I'd have the same songs!

OW's H called me yesterday. He wanted to see how I'm doing & if I might know anything he doesn't. I really don't. He told me that OW is hinting that the BIG change will come in June. She's also hinted that my H is facilitating the entire move and has saved money for the deposit, rent...etc. All the while he can't keep up with his own child's daycare payment! So, so much for H's lie about him living with his buddy for a while. I feel for OW's H, as OW has also talked as if she's just going to walk in one day, start packing, tell her kids to pack up & take them to a new home with a stranger.....with no warning. OW's H is the only real support system their kids have known the past 2 years. OW's work schedule & selfish attitude has seen to that. The part I see as very humorous is that OW has told her H that she wants her kids to see how two people can live together, be happy, get along, love each other and how they call all be a big happy family unit!!! Yes, she honestly believes that she will get all that with my H. As most of you have read my story through these many months know, you'd agree that my H is probably not capable of making that type of a turnaround, at least not at the drop of a hat. It would take counseling & a lot more patience than he has to be able to do that. OW's H and I are both very confused as to why there's still so much secrecy. We both know that our S's are leaving us. The least they could do is be respectful and give us some warning as to what they're planning. It's not just them, this involves our kids.

D4 seems to be feeling better. I love watching her sleep. She looks so peaceful.

H called me from work last night and asked what my plans were for the weekend. He may golf on Sunday, but made me aware that he'd be going to the grocery store tonight after work. I asked about Saturday & he told me that he thought he'd go through some closets. I said....Well then maybe that's a good time for us to start going through things and getting things settled. H was silent. It seems that any time I approach the subject he avoids it. I then told him that I was planning on going home next weekend. He wanted to know why. I just told him to see my family. He talked to D4 and then she hung up the phone. She told me that daddy wanted to talk to me so I called him back. It was odd, as he said....Oh, I just wanted to let you know that you can call me at work tomorrow if you need anything from the store. I just said, okay, thank you. H went out last night. I got up with D4 at 11:30 & 12:30 and he wasn't home. Not sure what time he did get home. Oh, let's add that H mentioned to me last night that he wished our daycare director would give us ANOTHER 2 week break by allowing D4 to stay with my family....AGAIN. Unbelievable!!

I talked to my sister last night and she agreed to be my life insurance beneficiary. That gives me peace of mind, as I know she'd do what is absolutely best for D4.

Well, I best be getting busy.

Have a good one everybody!!

SueS