T been trying to find ur email. i know they won't let us post them on here - do you have mine anymore? I would love to talk with u!!
I too am at that wierd place - "There is NOTHING I can do." NOTHING. It is strange. All my life i have been teh "Fixer" and took care of people. And now with H - it is all on him.
Have you heard someone ever use the term "false humility?" That is what my H has. Oh he is "remorseful." But not really - I am with you - my h too needs to heal and repent.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again