im not gonna say he is making headway or OW is less but he sure is spinning, but its clear in his warped take on life his boys outrank ow. He is begining to see the ramifications of his choices, and its scaring him. Your 180 has yanked the rug out from under his feet. Hes not on solid ground and he knows it. His desperation comes across in his wacky txts and emails....and the frequency of them. You stay the course and dont budge a centimeter! JA is sinking fast and trying to take you with him. was he pleasant to you?


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest