also I have a major question to ask. I'm VERY uncomfortable with d5 around OW (not sure if this has happened, h is fully aware that this is unacceptable to me as she is too young, this is still too new and she is having a VERY hard time with her daddy not being here every day).
So my lawyer on Monday is going to draw up the paperwork for (I don't know the exact document, but it is filed in family court and it basically barres any contact from my daughter and OW). If h is caught he will be arrested and will be hauled into family court with reduced visitation or supervised visitation. I know this sound way harsh, but you don't know the problems I've had with her these last months. she's hitting kids in school, crying daily in school for her father, social services was called and there is an open investigation on us (it's about to be closed because I totally cooperated and then some).
Anyway, should I go through with this? H thinks I am doing it (I told him). should I just drop it? what are your thoughts?
