I hate to revel in the loss of others or to gloat. So please, any emotionally healthy people in the room are welcome to offer mature guidance.

The guy (OM) my WAW ran off with.... who was himself a WAH from a seemingly commited marriage, got his @ss handed to him by judge this week.

Short version.... he takes his ex-wife to court to REDUCE child support he has been paying. Judge actually RAISES it and orders producing of all documents that he has been withholding that show where he is moving money from his company. Also ordered him to pay back-expenses to her and review again in near future.

Betrayed wife went in self-representing 'cause could not afford lawyer. WAH sends in sleazy shark (and I do mean sleazy... oddly... I had met with this lawyer years earlier thinking I might retain him in my own battle but he turns out to be a manipulative scum bag)... so judge ends up shutting him right down. Recall that the WAH was the plaintiff!

There is some justice left in this world!