How do they walk away?

[Treese]

Hi Sir;

I hope you are doing okay...haven't talked to you in a while..

First let me clarify something....I would never have my daughter choose sides....she was a daddy's girl all these years...she feel betrayed just like I do but for different reasons...I talked to her just yesterday and told her not to let mine and her dad's relationship determine her's and her dad's....that I know her dad loves her....
But...it's up to her....she is almost 16 and very mature...she understands what happened and is having a hard time dealing with why her dad chose to have an A number one and then got another woman pregnant....that is a lot to throw at a 16 year old....he also in the same conversation told her that he had a girlfriend that she was a good person and he hasn't loved me for years....now...I can't even handle that so I don't expect her to.. I really don't talk much about H in front of her....we try to talk about other things...I also told her that NO ONE is perfect....that we ALL make mistakes....she actually thinks I took too good of care of him and he couldn't handle it...probably not the case but it's what she feels right now...I told my H that it is going to take some time that he would just have to wait it out....(kind of what I am doing with him) and see what happens...whatever happens....she will NEVER forget that conversation....it will fade but the respect she has for him has been damaged....I respect BOTH my girls and I stand by them in everything they do....only time will tell....one day it will all be okay....

It really isnt' bothering H much though...he still goes and does his thing...he really doesn't care...that's just less time he has to spend here....I would be crying....I couldn't handle my children not talking to me....it would really hit the core....my children are number one no matter what....

So, How are you doing???


Treese