So, here I am. Running up really close to the 'deadline' I gave H. I told him he needed to come to a mediation appt with me before the end of May, or I would hire an atty. He keeps avoiding me. I regret giving this deadline, but canNOT 'back' out of it, can I? I am sure he remembers it. What do I do?
I see his actions. He is making plans for his life, and they don't include me. I see him distancing himself from me, by staying mostly business (kids/$ talks only). There comes a time right? I hate limbo. I am mortified to be married to a person who is constantly living a single life in one way or another. I am lonely and though I know a new R isn't anywhere in my near future, I think I would be less lonely if I worked through the pain of this divorce, and moved on, on my own.
