SallyM, just like on the phone...I just haaaaad to interupt.
Girl, even I didn't know everything that had happened. So much pain, yet so much growing. You guys both did RIGHT by the kids. So much to muddle through for both of you, yet you put them first. I commend you both. I commend you for being such an open and loving person. I commend (yes, I do...) your H for taking a scary leap back to his marriage. We forget how terrified they might actually be, just of different things.
Thanks for sharing. Your posts don't seem long because I love your writing!