As far as “B” is concerned, I’ll address her later. Yes, men are dumb creatures. Like I tell people, I may be dumb, but I ain’t stupid. Sometimes the lack of intimacy gets to me. Sure. Knowing someone MAY be interested in me feeds my ego. She knows my sitch. As I have alluded to on my threads, I, at times feel like my M is hopeless
“B” called me again on the way home, which I ignored. She has called me twice today, already. Again,I ignored. VM just giving specifics about the get together tonight. I will call her back.
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did call “B” back, finally and told her that I may not make it tonight. I am thinking of being honest with her. Tell her that I feel like I have a little crush on her and I don’t to want to make myself look or feel stupid in that we are just friends. I am working on my M and don’t want to mess myself up. It’s just me and that is why I haven't responded to her.
Sweetie, do you know how worried this makes me? Don't you realize that this is the state I was in when I met my OM? I also needed my ego stroked. I needed to feel admired and loved and appreciated. My M was in trouble. I felt little hope.
I shouldn't have said men are stupid about women.....I should have said that women just know when to pounce on a man when he's in trouble. Women are cunning creatures when they decide to go after a man! She knows exactly what she is doing!! She knows you are unhappy in your M. This woman is after you and she is making it seem oh so innocent! If you tell her that you have a little crush on her....she is going to come after you like bee to honey. Please, for God's sake, don't tell her that. You have enough to deal with, now.
Okay, back to the emailing, etc. You know your wife best and if you think it is looking positive....then you be the judge here, but I'm just saying to be careful or you will be doing too much pursuing before you realize it and right now, you are suppose to be working on detaching.....remember?
Glad you told me about the D6. I really felt bad about how I mishandled my D's situation b/c of my own ignorance. When they have that problem...and they are that age, they certainly don't like it any more than the parents do. It is disturbing to them and I hope that something can be done. Just reassure her that she will grow out of it and a lot of kids have the same problem.
Hey.....way to go with the ironing. I loved it! (lol) Bet your wife was surprised to find her clothes still lying there not ironed! That's funny. Same thing about fixing the lunches. See, she will learn to start to appreciate what you do for her after she gets through all this mess.
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That’s my detaching. May not sound like much, but it is big steps for me.
I think it is a great step! Keep it up!
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
