Real life's getting more like fiction each day (2)

[Starshyne]

I have an hour before the play, so I came home to get the mail. There is a letter from the college H is going to start up soon, so I think it might be important so I call him. It isn't anything. But I talk to H and still try to light and happy, but the conversation got a little not so happy.

I tell him about how my Grandma isn't doing well etc. He says how he needs to come and get some stuff. I say that I know but need to know when. He says he doesn't know because he is "so busy." I say something about how he sounds like getting his stuff is so urgent, but can't find a time so I am not sure what to tell him. He says that he can come by when he is off work tomorrow (between 3:30-4:00). Then he says how that might be a conflict. I say that it isn't for me. He said that he thought it would be. I say something about how I am no longer concerned about where he is all night and I don't mind if he comes to get his stuff. Then he asks me if I am sleeping in the bed. I say, of course I am, why would I? He said that he thought I had a problem doing that. I said I only had a problem when he was at home.

Some more meaningless talk and he says, "are you going to be home tomorrow at 4?" I say that I was going to see a movie that night, but would be home then. Wanted to know if I was going to work out. I said that I wasn't on Friday since my mom is out of town. Then I told him that I had a play to go to and needed to get going (I thought I had remembered that from the DB book...to end the conversation first). I told him to have a nice night. He sounded sad and said, "yeah, sure. I'll see you tomorrow around 4."

So...I am a little nervous. The first time seeing H since he left. It has been about a week since I last saw him. Any advice as to what to say? How to I act? I know not to ask him any questions about the OW or where he is staying (although I really would like to knkow).

Sara