Beauty, Those who have been through this crap all say you know when you reach the end of your rope. I'm sorry to hear that you've reached that point, but can hold your head up high at your efforts. And, don't forget, it ain't over till it's over. Perhaps by completely dropping the rope and walking away, your H will start running after it. If that does happen, it's up to you as to whether you want to pick up what's left or not.
Did he have anything to say when you told him you were going to file?
