It feels like nothing has changed. Yesterday after I gave him the letter he hugged me when I asked. We had lunch with his sister and her friend after we signed the document. Lenny Kravitz is coming her in October and we're planning on going. I dropped off something to H in the car this morning and he blew me a kiss when he left. He was here doing some work when I came back around 2. We had a small chit chat. We're cheerful with each other. I told him he owed me sushi and he agreed that it would be nice to go have sushi. Last time I suggested anything he told me "it's not healthy for us to spend time together" It's nice. I hope we can be friends.
I'm also learning not to ask questions that I don't want to hear the answers to. I ask questions and then when he tells me an answer I feel worse so from now on I'll at least try not to ask any dead end questions.
Jen
Last edited by JenInVen; 05/15/0809:45 PM.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
