As for the piecing, I think we have pretty much put all the pieces back together! It is wonderful.
Boy oh boy did I want revenge too. All it does is make things worse. I used to sit and think about it though! LOL
During this time in their lives, they think they want to be free and that they are happier than they had been with us. Don't forget you have history with your H in your sitch. He will start missing the things you did together and the memories will start coming through the fog in his brain.
When my H used to come over smiling and acting happy, I started doing the same. He started acting different after a while.
Do things for you right now and try to "wash that man right outta your hair"!
