If there is one thing I have learned, it is that patience is a virtue. I understand where you are coming from, and for you it is new and raw. I remember the first three months were the worst, and I couldn't get my head around the separation. Sometimes, though, the H/W just needs space and time to figure out how they feel. Don't give up, but do be good to yourself...that really helps.
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..