I haven't followed your thread, but it appears that DBing is working for you. Would you be so kind to recap your sitch, and the things that worked well for you to get H to ask you out on a date?
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
