Thanks Karen...it's just all weird. In some ways I am okay with this sitc in others I am not. More than anything I feel pretty confused. I have accepted most of this as where we are for now. I know that does not make it all okay, but I want her to get perspective & realize that D is a bad option. I think part of this is she is going thru MLC now. She is being selfish and thinks she has done things to help our R. If she looks in the mirror I don't think she has. I think I need to do some soul searching on this to figure out exactly where I am with this.


ME 33
W 37
Together 8
M: 5+
disconnected: 5
D: 2
D: 3