Better late than never?

[jon2911]

Take the time to actively think about things you admire about your spouse, and specifically complement them, especially the areas you're most unhappy about. This will be interpreted by them as love, even though saying "I love you" won't work right now.

Also good advice. I will have to try a spin on that.

Yeah, that would be tough in your sitch. I was trying to think of some: "I admire that you aren't just jumping back into the relationship, but taking time to make sure it's what you want."

It's hard to put a positive spin on his indecisiveness, but I guess that's part of relationship work. Let me know how it goes!