that's what my therapist said. it's like in every way we're still functioning as a married couple except we don't live together and he's sleeping with someone else.

Still a bit sick. I slept some. It's hard because I have to pick up d5 in a few hours and it's really hard getting her to bed these days. h picks her up tomorrrow. I get so anxious before he comes. I haven't called or emailed him all day. yeah for me, believe me. I just don't have the energy anymore. My friends are now going from, "Mary, he's going to get over this, I just can't see him truly wanting to end the marriage", to "Mary, it looks like you need to move on". So depressing.