What is it they say about opinions? They are like a$$holes, everyone has one!
And they all stink!
GF,
I don't remember if you and your H ever tried counseling -- or if he would even be willing? It just seems like the communication breakdown between you two should be addressed in a way that your husband can "get". Something's gotta give. What about Retrouvaille? Would that be something your husband could consider as a last-ditch effort?
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence