Yes, My H was the same way....everyone thought he adored me as much as I adored him...this was the last thing I would have ever expected and my whole family is torn apart.....H's mom and my mom are best friends and they work together...it has put a strain on that and his sister is my best friend....it didn't just affect my immediate family but everyone....and he says he hopes we can be friends some day...the OW must really have him where she wants him...I hope she's worth it....my scare is he will just grow deeper in love with her but I don't really think it's love....she is not a jealous person at all and neither is he..they are both very laid back..if I found another man he wouldnt even care...Of course, I don't want another man but......
I really do miss my best friend and our talks and just sitting around....it was comfort....now I'm nervous all the time....
When does it get better??
Treese
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity