If the courts cant see through all this confrontational and antagonistic behavior of your W, then someone is paying them off.
Your L must really enjoy watching your W hang herself.
As for you, the amount you have learned and grown from this is priceless. The listening to women and not trying to solve their problem, but instead validate their feelings, is a big one. Us guys tend to want to fix things, when what the woman wants is not necessarily advice, but instead understanding.
