Remember you can't always believe what they say. They might mean it at the time but alot of it is MLC talking. My self esteem went into the toilet too. My H and I were always close and for him to do what he did just devistated me and the whole family. My H was one of those that you would never think would do that.
IMO, I think they don't call because they need time and space to process what it going on with them. Yes, my H finally admitted that he thought about me and the kids all the time.
