Something DB coach told me the other day which applies...I was referring to response to my papers, but I said something to the effect that I should not do significantly more or less than what my W is doing. And I thought this was the way to be...DB coach said, "NO". I said, "well, is it like she is driving the car and I say lets take a left here." And she said, "no, it's like you take over driving while she rests awhile and then let her drive again when she is ready." Can't help but think that is something that you would like to hear. Of course, I don't know when the next "peck" would be, but you will.
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I know I have to stop by your thread to catch up with you.
I know you are busy...I am looking forward to hearing your thoughts...W friendly lately, more so than before papers...but summon court date soon and who knows if the two are related. Last night I called her and she did something that she hadn't done before and I noticed immediately. It may seem small or maybe it is big I don't know. She had said something about getting off phone, and I said something like I understood b/c of testing...and she said, "don't, don't, just don't even, stop, don't even bother going there, ..." and usually that's the silence or in this case, bye with a click and a dial tone to follow...last night, she continued, and on and on she went, like an additional 10 minutes sharing all about it...her sharing about her stressful day/life and not essentially cutting me out was definitely something different...that's the short, way to long version in the journal #2...
