Trying to wrap my mind around the situation

[ms ladybug]

I'm a stubborn one too, or as my therapist called it, there is the "presence of dedicated perseverance". I like his wording.

We stubborns are difficult to work with. It's hell upon hell for me to admit that I'm wrong. And asking forgiveness is pure torture. Not saying that I don't do those things, but it likely takes more effort on my part. So, once I make a decision, I don't want to back down and I say I was wrong. Nor, would I take kindly to anyone telling me that I'm wrong. I think, she would need to hear from you (when the time is right), that you have done her wrong, and would like to see you two "work together" to make things better. I do much better when my husband admits that TOGETHER we need to make changes, rather than pointing the finger.