Hey Bear,
You sound the best I've ever heard you! Good for you!
I'm so glad that you're focusing on yourself, YOU deserve to be happy and I think you're starting to see you don't him for that.

Sorry I haven't been keep up very well. How is your Mom doing?? I hope all is well with her.
J~

M 35
H 29
M 4 yrs T 9 yrs
D 3
S born 10/19/07
Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day
OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08
Status - still figuring this out