D sent me a text at 7:30 yesterday and I replied to her and she immediately called me to say hello. We talked for a few minutes and I told her to have a good flight.
Once they landed in Indianapolis, W sent a text to tell me they arrived safely and I replied telling D I loved her and to have fun at Grandma's house. When it was 7 pm in Indiana, I called to talk to D, but W didn't answer, so I left a message. W didn't call back, so I didn't get to tell my D goodnight.
I fell asleep before 10 pm and when I woke up, W had sent two texts during the night. The 1st one said:
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"D told me that she has 2 surprises taht I will see when she comes home from Tahoe. She said they are a secret. Explain this to me."
The 2nd one came about 15 minutes later and said:
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"I thought you agreed no more secrets. Explain what is going on."
I sent her a reply this morning that was brief and addressed her concerns. I told her I haven't told D to keep secrets and the only things I can think of was my dad was coming back w/ us and we were planning on repainting the interior of the house to ready it for sale. However, none of these were secrets of any sort, so I'm not sure what she's referring to.
W replied to my e-mail this morning:
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"She told me that you were getting her toes done and her ears pierced."
My reply was again simple and to the point:
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"This is news to me. The toes wouldn't be an issue, but the ears would NEVER be done w/out your approval. Besides, I think she's too young for ear piercings. This didn't come from me."
I haven't heard any reply from W and probably won't but there isn't much here. There is ZERO way I'd get her ears pierced w/out consulting W first. Also, I don't want her ears pierced at the age of 5. This is completely coming from the wishes of a 5-year-old who has some daycare friends w/ pierced ears.
Regardless of what W thinks, this didn't come from me. She won't believe me, but I'll again keep it as evidence to show the parenting evaluator how W is using the words of a 5-year-old as gospel truth and testimony.
W is hurting her own case here and she's mistakenly placing adult characteristics and reasoning into the actions and deeds of our D5. That isn't healthy for D and I can only pray the courts will see this.
