yes, I hope that she will let DB sink in. I've tried before, but she's that stubborn little sis that never learns unless she experiences it herself.
I wish she had a computer so she could go on here herself.
What I believe needs to happen for her is...
Get to a healthy weight (she's obese and has been for many years) Get the house in an orderly working fashion (it can get very bad) get a life because she does nothing, but she also doesn't have $ stop yelling/griping (this is a character for her)
HE needs to... wake up and take responsibility instead of loosing his jobs, which he just did this week, stop drinking and realize he's an alchoholic, and stop wasting $, and start being responsible period.
and pray pray pray pray pray!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."