Awww thanks Sally! Glad to have inspired any home improvement projects. Speaking of.. haven't done any in awhile, I should do some.

Wow a date! I'm happy for you. Stay strong and yes, get VERY clear on what specifically you want from him. That was a mistake I made that I have regretted for over a year now. Think hard about what it'll take for you to rebuild trust, in particular.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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