I'm completely w/ you on this. I hate not knowing too. It sucks that the legal system is slow and at the same time, they are also fairly careless w/ what they do b/c of their backload of cases.
I will be thinking good thoughts and waiting anxiously to hear what the judge decides. I'm in the same situation too and I can only pray that justice will prevail on the side that is right for both of us.
Hang tough, my friend. It will be better in time. The fact that it takes so much time is what we hate the most. Time is our friend and the truth will come out in time. The problem is time moves slowly.