Still Tryin's 2nd piecing

[MichelleLT]

The stepdaughter is a tough one...she probably feels very close to her, but if they D obviously she won't see her much, if at all.

It is hard to choose between trying to keep up the normal routines and letting her H see what life will be like if they D. I really don't know which to pick as it depends so much on the situation and personalities and what would be 180s for her and also best for the stepdaughter.

I hope that your sister really starts to internalize the DB stuff. It definitely doesn't sink in the first time around, or even the second. Of course, you have been there, done that and know her better than any of us, so I'm sure your advice will be awesome.